“My Child Keeps Touching Private Parts—What Should I Do?” Pediatrician Shares Essential Advice for Parents

Many parents feel embarrassed or concerned when their young children repeatedly touch or play with their private parts. Pediatrician Dr. Nimisha Arora recently addressed this issue in a detailed video, offering guidance on how parents can handle such behavior calmly and appropriately.

A Normal Part of Development

Dr. Arora explains that it is completely normal for children, from toddlers to preschoolers, to touch or explore their private parts. Just as babies frequently touch their eyes, ears, or noses, they may also explore their genitals. This behavior usually begins around 4–6 months of age as part of natural body exploration and curiosity.

Avoid Overreacting

Parents often feel embarrassed or anxious and may scold or shout at the child. According to Dr. Arora, overreacting can create feelings of guilt related to sexuality in children later on. Instead, parents should respond calmly, understanding that this is a normal developmental phase.

Teach Anatomically Correct Terms

When the child reaches around two to two-and-a-half years old, parents can begin introducing anatomically correct names for body parts in a calm, educational manner. For example: “This is your penis” or “This is the vagina.” Using correct terminology helps children understand their bodies properly and promotes healthy communication.

Divert Attention in Public

While exploration is normal, public behavior should be managed appropriately. If a child touches themselves in public, parents should calmly redirect their attention to another activity or put on pants/diapers without creating a scene.

When to Consult a Doctor

Most children naturally outgrow this behavior as they observe that other children do not engage in it. However, parents should seek medical advice if they notice:

• Redness, irritation, or itching in the private area
• Signs of infection
• Increasing frequency or compulsive behavior

Dr. Arora emphasizes that understanding, patience, and gentle guidance are key to helping children navigate this phase without shame or guilt.